What Makes A Woman Irrisistible?

There are many beautiful women but not all of them are irresistible to men. When you see women who are not endowed with helenic beauty but can draw men to them, questions such as what’s their secret? Why are men drawn to them? cross your mind. So let’s see what makes one appealing and irresistible? 

·         Nurturing attitude

Men love to be nurtured and be cared for.  They don’t say it openly but deep inside they crave for it and nurturing is an intrinsic characteristic of a woman.

·         Fun to be with and has a sense of humor

Don’t be too serious. Take life in your stride. Men love to be with a girl who can laugh without a care in the world when a joke is dished out. Even people love to be with other people who are happy and enjoy the company of others. When you are a happy person you tend to attract people to you.

·         Exude confidence

Men are attracted to women who exude confidence and they avoid women who are always complaining about their appearance and are judgmental. It is nice to be around a woman who loves what she has.

·         Has intelligence and presence

You don’t have to be a genius to attract men but you have to have intelligence to be a discussion partner of men. It means you can talk of almost anything in this world intelligently. Men are attracted to a witty and intelligent woman. Presence means you are not just there physically but you are attentive and you respond with vigor.  Men do not want to be with women who keep on thinking of other things when with them.

·         Makes a point to look elegant and attractive

Men cannot resist women who make efforts to look good and beautiful. Of course they like their women to be good looking. Be trendy and fashionable.

·         Has a positive attitude

Men avoid women who always look at the negative side of the relationship. It is said that positive attitude attract positive energy that can strengthen a relationship. When you have a positive outlook in life, you tend to be happy with your environment and with people you are with.

·         Full of love and passion

Men love women who love them. Live with him with love and passion and forget all the negative side of your relationship such as jealousy, fear and cheating. You will likely end up being cheated if you keep on fearing that he might cheat you. Men get frustrated and fed up when their women keep on nagging them. Unleash that love and erase all your negative thoughts about your man.

·      Full of smiles

A woman full of smiles seems to be a better person to talk to and get along with than a woman who seems not to smile at all. A genuine smile is irresistible to men. 

·         Energetic and lively

Men are attracted to women who have a lot of energy and are always alive. It means there is no dull moment when you are with her.

·         Stands out in a crowd

You are the center of the crowd not because you are beautiful but because people love the way you deal with them. Beauty is not the only factor to stand out in a crowd, being well-dressed, fashionable, elegant, lively and full of laughter and sense of humor can make you stand out in a sea of people.

Tips On How To Have A Lasting Relationship With Your Husband

How can one sustain a lasting romantic relationship? Majority of couples tend to slowly drift away from their partners without realizing it. This is attributed to a lot of factors such as domestic problems that may cause misunderstanding between husband and wife, too much focus on career that limits the attention of the couples for each other. Too much familiarity that breeds contempt for each other. Even petty things can cause relationships to break

Keeping a lasting relationship entails efforts from both husband and wife. Here are some tips you can employ to sustain your relationship.

Be sensitive 

You have to listen and look at the things that are not said and done.  For example, when a couple are newly married, they usually give each other a kiss when they arrive home to their spouse. As the years go by, they forget to kiss their spouse when they get home.This may be petty but it can cause a slow deterioration of the relationship.

Keep the romance and intimacy going

How does one do this? Do not let the romance and closeness die down. If you have been a bit indifferent to each other, get back on your feet and rekindle the intimacy and the romance you had when you were newly married or when the courtship was still going. Say sweet nothings to each other like you use to do. You can go to the park and relieve your courtship days, to the movies and watch like lovers, to ice cream parlor and enjoy each others' company. You can do a lot of things to keep your romance and intimacy alive.

Keep your interest in your partner alive

Don't relegate your partner at the sidelines. Make your partner the center of your life. Be interested in what your partner is doing, feeling and thinking like when you were still dating. Make your partner feel important in your life and join each others' activities. 

Keep the communication lines open

Many couples who have been into their relationship for quite sometime tend to forget to communicate with each other. They presume that they are understood even without telling their partner. This is not true. Your partner is not a mind-reader neither a fortune teller who can guess what's in your mind or what you want to do. You have to communicate to your partner your thoughts and feelings on certain issues. You have to be open to allow you both an opportunity to resolve your concerns.

Spend more time together

Make sure to spend more time together. When you were dating you can spend hours with each other just talking, roaming around and exploring just anything. You have a lot of memories on those times and doing that after a few years of being together could bring back a lot of excitement for the both of you. You can back track and go to the places you use to go or do the things you did when you were very new. This will evoke emotions that you thought were no longer there. Memories can do a lot to rekindle the love you had and to strengthen your relationship.

Keep the excitement in your relationship

When you were dating, you were always eager to be with each other. The excitement of seeing each other kept your relationship alive. Even if you have been together for a long time, you can always make your relationship exciting by doing things together or surprising your partner with a flower or a gift even if their is no occasion. You can put a note on the pillow "It was a great night", "you're still handsome", "you look beautiful even in sleep". Simple things such as these can keep the excitement alive.

Do things together

In the early years of your relationship, you do things together, everything. This is because you wanted to help each other and experience together while staying close to each other. You can do that again, you prepare dinner together, you do laundry, clean the house together. In this way, you will strengthen your ties and keep your going.

It is easier said than done but if you're not going to do it, then your relationship is doomed. You can talk this out with your partner and work on it. There is no such thing as perfect relationship. Every relationship has its own ups and downs and the success of a lasting relationship is dependent on each of the partners. The effort of each partner has to be complemented by the other, otherwise it will not work.