Reasons Why Relationships Fail

Relationships do not fail only due to huge unresolved issues, it breaks down due to petty reasons that we tend to ignore. When these small things pile up, it can cause an eruption of emotions. When at the height of anger, depression and hurt, the most common result is break up. Our minds are clouded by the feelings we have at the moment and this is understandable.

Expecting too much

There is no such thing as perfect relationship. There are always the ups and downs and factors that affect a relationship. Avoid expecting too much from your woman or man. As the saying goes “Nobody is perfect, thus, no relationship is perfect” If you expect that your relationship will be a perfect one, you are in for a disappointment. You expect your girl to be at every turn you take. Remember she also has a life of her own. You have to give her time for herself.

Men also need time alone for themselves. Respect their privacy and allow them to do what they love to do. Most men love to go off with their friends without their girl. Give him that liberty.

Whining

Stop being such a child and a grumbler. Most women like men do not want the company of one who is always complaining almost about anything. Be a sport and enjoy the company of your friends and friends of your girl or boy. Do not be a cry baby.

Jealousy

This is deadly in a relationship when we do not know how to manage it. It is but natural to be jealous but you must know when to be jealous. You may be jealous when there is no reason to be. At times, your partner gets irritated when you start nagging him or her due to your jealousy. What you need to do is to trust your man or your woman. A Trust-less relationship is doomed to fail.

Selfishness

A relationship is symbiotic. Both partners should be sensitive to the other’s needs or you end up quarreling and breaking up. When you do something, consider your partner. Do not jump onto something without informing your woman or man.

Too Demanding

Being too demanding in a relationship can break it. Do not expect people even your woman or man to be at your beck and call at all times. Neither do you own them nor have the right to dominate your woman or your man. They are humans too and they need to be somewhere or with someone once in a while.

They need their friends apart from you and you should give them that right. These are just a few of the multitude of reasons why relationships fail. As you can see these are petty things that should not affect a relationship but as we all know these are most common causes of break ups.