The Woman in a Man’s Heart (My thoughts)

Every man has an ideal woman in his heart. Believe it or not, men create the perfect woman in their minds, how they love to have that woman come into being. Like Aphrodite coming down from Olympus with the radiance of beauty and sexuality, the embodiment of the qualities of a complete woman that men desire. The woman that launched a thousand ships in the story of “Helen of Troy”. THE WOMAN – one that melts the heart of a man and that one woman every single man desires to be his. 

Where is she?, one in a trillion or none at all? Men are dreamers and they do not realize that a perfect woman do not exist. As the adage goes nobody is perfect, so men cannot find anyone of that sort. They should be realistic and face the world with their feet on the ground. Let me tell you what most men look for in a woman but every man has its own type of a woman.  

Physical Appearance 

Uppermost on their list is the woman’s physical appearance. Remember men are visual, meaning they appreciate the things they can see. So the appearance of a woman is very important to them. She must be Sexy, well-dressed and well-groomed. A man wants a woman who turns him into a raging fire by merely looking at her. Physical beauty is a vital factor in looking for the woman they want.  

Mischievous 

Some men love a woman who tends to be playful and naughty. It does not mean she flirts with other men, it means she plays and flirts with his man. This drives a man wild and his imagination wilder and helps deepen the connection. However, women do not realize this and try to be so prim and proper because they believe that being naughty is a turn off for men. Men love a woman who surprises them by suddenly grabbing him and play. He wants her to be wilder than him and loves sex as much as he does. He wants a woman who would do anything he wants about love making.  

An independent and emotionally matured woman 

Men love the independent woman and not the clingy one. They love someone who has a world of her own and do not make him her world. She does not leave her friends to join him or lets her responsibilities slide to attend to his. She has her own interest and she allows him as much time for himself as she does. Men need attention too and he loves his woman to pamper him. He wants to be treated like a king by his woman when she is with him. Men do not like women who demand so much. It is enough that he knows that you know that he is there for you but do not abuse it. It becomes irritating. Do not blame him for things you cannot control. The woman should understand her emotions and deal with it.

A conversationalist and intelligent 

Men love women whom they can talk to about anything from politics to the most mundane thing. It excites them to the point of being attracted to the woman. Intelligence in a woman attracts him her too. But they want to be better than their woman which is a good sign. He does not want a confrontational scenario, he'd rather not discuss it.


Every woman wants to be desired by the man they love and every man wants a perfect woman if only there is one. Every man wants the sexiest woman to be their own.

If we turn the table, what do you think is the Man in a Woman's Heart?